I'm so sorry to hear about what's going on with Den. I can't even begin to imagine how hard that all has to be.
I'm not the most knowledgeable person, but I've seen a lot of surviving partners/family drama from my time working in a financial institution. So feel free to take any advice below as you wish, or totally ignore it. Only answer if it feels like it might help in some way.
Does Den have a will? And if so, are you listed as his beneficary for the home when it's PIF, etc? That-- plus finacial Power of Attorney-- will make things much easier in a worst case scenario.
I'm not sure if an ABLE account would help. It has a number of restrictions, but maybe it would be a safe place to store some money? I see it can apply funds to "housing", but I'm not totally sure if that would include costs for home repairs, etc.
If you need to chat on Discord or anything, my reply time can be slow, but I'm always around for anything you need.
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I'm not the most knowledgeable person, but I've seen a lot of surviving partners/family drama from my time working in a financial institution. So feel free to take any advice below as you wish, or totally ignore it. Only answer if it feels like it might help in some way.
Does Den have a will? And if so, are you listed as his beneficary for the home when it's PIF, etc? That-- plus finacial Power of Attorney-- will make things much easier in a worst case scenario.
I'm not sure if an ABLE account would help. It has a number of restrictions, but maybe it would be a safe place to store some money? I see it can apply funds to "housing", but I'm not totally sure if that would include costs for home repairs, etc.
If you need to chat on Discord or anything, my reply time can be slow, but I'm always around for anything you need.